Planning Your Dream Elopement Anywhere!
- Alex Ashley
- Mar 27
- 5 min read
Introduction
Imagine saying your vows surrounded by sweeping mountain views, the crash of ocean waves, or the whisper of ancient trees. Eloping is a magical, meaningful alternative to a traditional wedding—and for many UK couples, it’s the perfect way to celebrate love with intention and complete freedom.
Increasingly, engaged couples in England and Wales are opting to elope. Why? Because it offers simplicity, intimacy, and a connection to nature that large ceremonies can’t always provide. Whether it’s just the two of you or a handful of loved ones, your elopement can be as adventurous or relaxed as you like. Let’s explore how to plan an unforgettable outdoor elopement, from selecting the perfect location to incorporating deeply personal touches.
Finding the Perfect Location
From the misty peaks of Eryri (Snowdonia) to the dramatic coastlines of Anglesey, the UK is home to stunning natural locations ideal for elopements. Perhaps you already know exactly where you want to elope to, or perhaps you need some inspiration. The possibilities are endless. If you choose North Wales, I can guide you all the way, whether you're looking for a spectacular waterfall, an idyllic beach, a magical woodland or a majestic mountain top!
Of course, nothing beats standing in the space where you might say “I do.” If possible, visit potential elopement spots beforehand to get a sense of the setting. Take photos, note the light at different times of day, and assess the accessibility of the location, especially if guests will be joining you. Do you need someone to conduct a site visit for you? I am often scouting out amazing locations for ceremonies, and I would be more than happy to undertake a site visit for you if I am not already familiar with the location!
Looking at further afield destinations? Let's do this - I love an adventure and will be right by your side to support your planning and deliver a pitch-perfect ceremony wherever you choose!
As an outdoor enthusiast, I am completely comfortable in most settings. I have previously taught snowboarding, scuba diving, and sailing, so if something a little more adventurous is on your mind, then I'm your go-to adventure wedding celebrant.
Understand Local Regulations
Some national parks and beaches require permission for outdoor ceremonies. Ensure you research the rules for your chosen location thoroughly in advance. In the UK, certain outdoor spaces are protected, and you'll want to ensure your ceremony is both beautiful and compliant.
Crafting the Itinerary
Choose a Season and Time of Day
Let nature work its magic. Spring blooms, summer sunsets, autumn leaves, or winter frost each offer a unique atmosphere. Consider early morning or golden hour for the most flattering light, and fewer crowds.
Plan a Simple Yet Meaningful Flow
Elopements are flexible but still benefit from a basic structure. Include:
Arrival and preparation time
A personalised ceremony with vows and readings
A short celebration afterwards—perhaps a picnic, cake-cutting or first dance under the stars
You don’t need a strict schedule, but a loose timeline helps things flow smoothly.
Be Prepared for the Unexpected
Outdoor ceremonies can bring surprises—especially with UK weather! Have a backup location or a cosy plan B (a nearby lodge, tent or indoor space) just in case. Keep umbrellas and warm layers on hand too.
Personalising the Ceremony
This is where I come in. I will create a truly unique ceremony, bringing your story to life with meaningful details woven in. You may choose to write your own vows, or you may choose to weave in some other rituals, such as a traditional Celtic handfasting.
When I work with couples, I start thinking about how we can make the ceremony awesome, right from first contact!
Capturing the Moment
Hire a Professional Elopement Photographer
Great photos aren’t just a luxury—they’re an investment in your memories. Choose someone experienced in outdoor or elopement photography, as they’ll know how to work with natural light, remote settings, and those fleeting emotional moments.
I work with a network of local photographers who are not only comfortable in most settings but are also fun to be around and will most definitely match your vibe on the day. With intimate weddings, it's essential to feel relaxed and completely at ease with your supplier team.
Budgeting for Your Elopement
Prioritise What Matters Most
Start with what you value most—photography, travel, attire, or location—and build your budget around that. Elopements are typically more affordable than traditional weddings, but costs can vary widely based on your plans.
Look for Cost-Saving Ideas
Use local vendors to reduce travel expenses
DIY your bouquet, hair or decor
Combine your elopement with your honeymoon to save on travel
A typical UK elopement can range from £1,500 to £5,000, compared to the national wedding average of over £20,000.
Keep an Eye on Hidden Costs
Remember to budget for:
Travel and accommodation
Celebratory drinks/cakes
Outfits and accessories
Weather contingencies (e.g. shelters or gear)
What about the legalities?
Why Can’t a Celebrant Legally Marry You (Yet)?
Let’s start with an important distinction: In Wales (and England), independent celebrants like myself cannot currently perform legally binding marriage ceremonies. Our role is to create and lead a completely personalised ceremony that reflects your relationship, values and vision—but the legal marriage paperwork must be handled separately through a registrar.
The good news? This opens up the best of both worlds: you can take care of the legal bit quickly and simply, then have a beautiful, bespoke, celebrant-led elopement or wedding ceremony in the location of your dreams—be that on a mountain, beach, forest, or even abroad.
One of the most cost-effective, stress-free ways to do this is with a 2+2 ceremony at your local register office.
Step-by-Step: How to Legally Register Your Marriage with a 2+2
1. Choose Where You Want to Give Notice
Both partners must give formal notice of your intent to marry at your local register office, even if you're planning to marry elsewhere.
You must have resided in the registration district for at least 7 days before giving notice.
You’ll both need to attend in person.
Your notice is valid for 12 months and applies only to the location you name for your legal marriage.
2. Book Your Notice of Marriage Appointment
Contact your local registry office to book a notice appointment. You’ll need to bring:
Valid photo ID (passport or driving licence)
Proof of address (utility bill, council tax, bank statement)
Details of your intended venue (the register office offering the 2+2 service)
If either of you was previously married, you’ll also need a decree absolute or death certificate
The cost to give notice is typically £35 per person (£70 total).
3. Book Your 2+2 Ceremony
Once you’ve given notice, you can book the legal marriage itself. You’ll need to:
Choose a date and time (some register offices offer limited days for 2+2s)
Confirm your two witnesses (aged 16+, no legal restrictions)
Pay the ceremony fee (often £57–£70, depending on the office)
If you’re using a statutory register office room (not a licensed venue), this will usually be the most affordable option.
Your Elopement, Your Way
Eloping gives you permission to let go of pressure and expectation—and create something real, raw, and incredibly meaningful. Whether you exchange vows on a windswept Welsh peak, a quiet woodland path, or a sun-drenched European island, your elopement is a celebration of your love, your way.
Take the leap. Embrace the adventure. And create a love story that’s as unforgettable as the view from the top.
Are you planning your own elopement? I’d love to hear your story—or help you start it.
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